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Old March 24th, 2015 #9
Alex Linder
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Originally Posted by Breanna View Post
I am trying to overcome my worst character trait, vanity, trying to be more humble and not crave praise, to do things more selflessly instead of wanting praise and recognition. If somebody without vanity can advise, or somebody who has gone through a change from vanity to humility, I would appreciate. I also invite others to work at ridding themselves of their own character flaws.

When I try to look up advice about this issue I mostly find Catholic material, and it is pretty disheartening because it says that trying not to be vain is vain lol. And tell me the only way to overcome such a fault is through prayer and confession. But I am not Christian.
- dont look in mirrors, just to check before you go out
- focus on others or a cause, rather than yourself
- focus on admiring others, finding people to look up to, rather than looking down in criticism.
- learn new stuff; starting from nothing is always a little humbling