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Old February 19th, 2019 #1
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Either you have a marriage or you don't. I'd never ever get into a marriage and build a family and then cheat on my wife. That idea is unfathomable to me.

I mean okay, rich or famous men can do this and their wife sort of kind of knows it, but a normal man doing this I do not understand. You're just making your life a mess.

The idea of divorce is equally displeasing to me. Even though I understand that in some cases it might be necessary. But today it seems like more than half of all marriages end in divorce. Bizarre.

What do you think?
 
Old February 19th, 2019 #2
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Either you have a marriage or you don't. I'd never ever get into a marriage and build a family and then cheat on my wife. That idea is unfathomable to me.

I mean okay, rich or famous men can do this and their wife sort of kind of knows it, but a normal man doing this I do not understand. You're just making your life a mess.

The idea of divorce is equally displeasing to me. Even though I understand that in some cases it might be necessary. But today it seems like more than half of all marriages end in divorce. Bizarre.

What do you think?
I agree. I've done lots of things: however, I never cheated on any woman I was married to. My failed marriages happened because I picked women who couldn't handle the nasty hours a doctor kept when I was in practice. I had lots of passes made at me by nurses and others. However, I knew that they were just all named Avarice, with a huge capital "A." My exes found out that I was not a bad chap. One married a guy who died of Alzheimer's disease a few years back. Another married the guy she went with before me. Every time I meant marriage to be until death. And, after 23 years of marriage to my current wife, I know that we will be married until death parts us.
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Old February 19th, 2019 #3
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That was a very good post, Erik.
 
Old February 19th, 2019 #4
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Jews actively encourage Westerners to cheat on their spouse. It's just one of the many ways in which the satanic jews try to weaken, undermine and destroy their Western host population.

Remember the infamous online dating service Ashley Madison that was set up for married people looking for an extramarital affair? This sleazy company (whose slogan was "Life is short, have an affair") was run by a jew, Noel Biderman, who was forced to resign from his position as CEO after he was exposed as a con man who deceived his customers:

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Ashley Madison is an online dating service and social networking service marketed to people who are already in a relationship with the slogan "Life is short. Have an affair."[4] (…) Trish McDermott, a consultant who helped found Match.com, accused Ashley Madison of being a "business built on the back of broken hearts, ruined marriages, and damaged families".
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ashley_Madison

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Noel Biderman (born 1971)[1] is a Jewish Canadian Internet entrepreneur, and business marketing and operations specialist from Toronto, Ontario, Canada.[2] Biderman has occupied roles as corporate President, CEO, COO and International Lead for businesses that have operated in 58 different countries around the globe.[2] Biderman is the former CEO of Avid Life Media and was the Chief Executive of parent company extramarital affair website Ashley Madison.[3]
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In the summer of 2015, the Ashley Madison website was hacked and sensitive information of millions users was released publicly. Biderman was accused by the hackers of failing to delete accounts from the website even after customers paid to have accounts removed.[9] Biderman's emails were also released.[10] In the wake of the hack, Biderman voluntarily stepped down as CEO of the company on August 28, 2015.[11] (…) less than 1% of the female users were ever active on the site, the 5 million accounts held by women "show so little activity that they might as well not be there".[7][8]
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Biderman was born Jewish and had a bar mitzvah ceremony. His grandparents were Holocaust survivors and he has stated that he looks forward to his son's bar mitzvah.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noel_Biderman

Noel Biderman. "Trust me".







 
Old February 19th, 2019 #5
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Sober-minded and serious about matters of life and death are not encouraged anymore. It's not treated as a matter of life and death, it's treated flippantly as is everything else. In media (and media is controlling how a good many people shape their thinking from cradle to grave) you can see the way this changed over time. Our ancestors didn't think this way which is obvious, because at one time in early media or in books we see that reflected.

Then they started using media not to reflect stories about what people are doing and who we are, but to tell us what to do and direct who we are supposed to be.

On the note of men, whether they 'all cheat': I've heard people say that any man who can cheat will cheat but as Erik posted regarding his mentality, I don't think this is true. I do think men being wired differently means they might be more likely to, but if people make a commitment to things then that's a matter of honor and it's not something they want to deal with knowing about themselves, if they are emotionally mature, I don't think. Not once they've settled on having a family and care about taking care of it.

Sadly though in many cases where a man is accused of murdering his wife, the cops will look for an affair and if they find one they go after him with a vengeance. This has happened in many, many cases where the man was innocent. But the high volume of 'affairs' in the cases is sad.

One man in just such a case spent years in jail for the crime of murdering his wife and two kids---he didn't do it a nigger did. The nigger had a foot fetish and had taken off the wife's shoes, murdered his family in their garage when he wasn't home.

He had many affairs though over the years, but in the interviews he did he clearly loved his wife and kids. It was sad because you could see the level of guilt he had over it now that they were gone. For men like that I think they separate the love of their wife from the 'opportunity' of frivolous whoring, which they shouldn't do of course but I think that is clearly the mentality.
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Old February 20th, 2019 #6
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Jews actively encourage Westerners to cheat on their spouse. It's just one of the many ways in which the satanic jews try to weaken, undermine and destroy their Western host population.

Remember the infamous online dating service Ashley Madison that was set up for married people looking for an extramarital affair? This sleazy company (whose slogan was "Life is short, have an affair") was run by a jew, Noel Biderman, who was forced to resign from his position as CEO after he was exposed as a con man who deceived his customers:
Ashley Madison is just one example. Here's another company that tries to get married people to cheat on their spouse – Victoria Milan:

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Victoria Milan is a new European dating site for married and attached people seeking confidential affairs.
https://www.victoriamilan.com/en/static/about-us

And the head of this disgraceful company's Swedish branch is (or was) the famous jewess Dominika Peczynski:

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Hon blir svensk chef – för otrohetssajten


Dominika Peczynski, 40, blir chef för otrohetssajten Victoria Milan.

– Jag är inte typen som moraliserar över vad andra har för sig i – eller utanför – sina förhållanden, säger hon.
https://www.aftonbladet.se/relatione...otrohetssajten

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Dominika blir Sverigechef för otrohetssajten Victoria Milan


STOCKHOLM. Det är en taggad och glad Dominika Peczynski som nu blir chef för den nya otrohetssajten. Tidigare har hon drivit dejtingsidan Love Search och redan då fanns otrohetselementet med i bilden.
https://nyheter24.se/nyheter/inrikes...ar-sverigechef

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Dominika Peczynski (born 20 September 1970[1]) is a Polish-Swedish singer, model and television host. (...) born 20 September 1970 in Warsaw, Poland, to Russian-Jewish mother Tina and Polish father.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominika_Peczynski

It's always jews. What a strange coincidence. Or maybe I should say cohenincidence.
 
Old February 20th, 2019 #7
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My dad cheated on my mom at the age of approximately 50 or 55.

I think he had a "midlife crisis" and he was just tired of "eating the same cereal every day for 30 years." The affair ended 6 months later, and no one ever said anything more about it. It was "ancient history" after it ended. Life went on as normal.




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Old February 20th, 2019 #8
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Did your mom know about it?

My mom thought my dad cheated on her with a much younger woman a few years ago. The anger she showcased then surprised me, I had to step in and control her...learnt me a thing or two about relationships.
 
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Did your mom know about it?

My mom thought my dad cheated on her with a much younger woman a few years ago. The anger she showcased then surprised me, I had to step in and control her...learnt me a thing or two about relationships.

As far as I know, my mom did not know about it. The woman-in-question was much younger than my mom (i.e., 26 or 28 years old).



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As far as I know, my mom did not know about it. The woman-in-question was much younger than my mom (i.e., 26 or 28 years old).



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Okay, that must be even tougher...wrestle between your loyalties...
 
Old February 21st, 2019 #11
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Anyone who cheats on their spouse should be ashamed of themselves it is a betrayal. Unless it's one of those marriages where the wife won't sleep with her husband anymore "not tonight honey" I think then what is the man supposed to do but cheat if she's refusing to fulfill his needs? And even more shameful are the other kinds of cheating in our society. Divorcing, then remarrying and starting a second family - that's cheating on your kids, now you are splitting your resources between two families. Dating or sex outside your race - that's cheating on your folk, cheating on your ancestors. I liken helping nonwhites to having an emotional affair. Fidelity should be one of the highest virtues, total fidelity to all of one's duties and to everyone that one has any kind of relationship with.
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Old February 21st, 2019 #12
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well we have free agency in sports, and this mentality is now promoted in relationships. it's another way to weaken families.

the law is messed up because it provides incentives -- to women, not men -- to divorce.

that's the main thing.

then you have tv that celebrates the shallowest sort of stupidity, particularly with these utterly stupid "reality" shows in which wannabe actors mix and match ("Batchelor" etc.). average women watch these, and it has an effect on their own behavior, they become to believe that that sort of foolishness IS reality.

white men decided they didnt want to be men, let jews take over and set up niggers and their own women to boss them, the west quickly fell apart.

that's the executive summary.
 
Old February 21st, 2019 #13
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Jews aren't just trying to be the only race left, they're trying to be the only serious adults.

Look at their media vs what they write for goyim.

Encouraging goyim into serial, trivial 'relationships' rather than stable families with traditions and children is what jews do. It's part of their nation wrecking set of tools.
 
Old February 21st, 2019 #14
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If you're disordered, it shows up first in your "sex life" (another jew term).

Spencer recently said a man who has fucked around is worth more than a faithful husband. Roosh said something similar. The idea is chad > virgin.

The truth is the reverse. A man shackled to disordered feels is a slave, and he makes a mess of his life and others' lives. A loose cannon.

To the extent that great men whored around and cheated on their spouses, it was a flaw, not a sign of strength. It was not the strong vital part of them. It was the weak, not-great part.

That's my opinion, anyway. Both times I was married, I was hit on by a lot of bitches. Physically aroused, but never even considered cheating. Like Robbie I wonder how in hell do people DO that? If you don't like your wife anymore, get a divorce. Don't snake and sneak and weasel around like a dirtbag.
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Old February 21st, 2019 #15
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In the "heyday" of the sexual revolution, I spent quite a bit of time at the location below:

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Riverbend Apartments was an infamous 600-unit apartment complex located in suburban Atlanta, Georgia, off Interstate 285. It has been described as Atlanta's most notorious singles complex.[1] The apartment complex was also the plot setting for part of the 2002 film Catch Me If You Can.[2]

History

Located in Cumberland district of Atlanta, Riverbend got its name from the fact that it overlooked a bend in the Chattahoochee River. Developed by Crow, Pope & Land Enterprises in the early 1970s,[3] Riverbend was one of the 1970s Atlanta's most notorious landmarks of sexual hedonism. It was named by Playboy as ground zero of the Sexual Revolution, due to its clubhouse keggers and nude pool parties.[1] By the late 1970s, laws that prohibited "no-children-allowed" apartments were passed, and the singles scene shifted elsewhere as residents married or moved to newer complexes.[4][5][6] It has since been redesigned,[7] and is now known as "Walton on the Chattahoochee."
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It was even wilder than the description in jewkepedia. That was the way it was in those years. I married my first wife and, after my chemical engineering degree which solidified my entrance into med school, full scholarship. I lived within a few hours' drive of my in-laws. In the mid 1970s my sister-in-law got a scholarship to train as a nuclear medical technologist. After she graduated, she got a job in Atlanta and moved into the Riverbend Apartments. Well, well. My wife (her sister, I'm an only child) used to visit her quite a bit at Riverbend when she lived there. She used to tell her pals, girl and guy, that whenever I came into town, that I was taken and I flatly couldn't be tempted into action. And, it was quite true. Oh, lots of girls tried to flirt with the budding young doctor, and it was so futile they didn't know what planet I came from. Now, I was not a saint, and neither my religious views nor a threat of a monetary loss in alimony, etc., weren't the main thing keeping my vows intact. It was what I admired in White Men who were my ideals. And that was mental discipline. And I wasn't the only young man who felt this way. The married men in my classes weren't saints and most weren't even religious. However, we actually talked about the mental abilities, mental gymnastics, and mental discipline it took for us to forego lots of parties, dances, and even dates when we were single, to hit the books all weekend, with little sleep, studying for an exam like physical chemistry or biochemistry or other subjects that "the business majors," as we rather snidely referred to the "party animals" (think about the film "Animal House") couldn't begin to pass. We did. And, every last one of those with the discipline to hack those courses had it cross over to our marriages. The married guys and even girls we used to study at med school with were there to study. Not one of that group played around. The White Men and Women were disciplined in our subjects in med school and our respective marriages. Some, like me, had marital problems after graduation, residencies, etc. Some of us were screwed royally by the (((jewdicial system))) that gave massive child support to our ex wives even after they married BASTARDS that made as much as we did!!!!! Later on, I saw a few of my old classmates in places like cruises sponsored by our undergrad colleges, or the like, and some had new wives, as did I. As far as I know, the last marriages stuck like the proverbial glue. My second didn't, and I paid 14 years worth of child support, seeing my only child about eight times in those 14 years. I could have seen her more: however, she always had to be in the company of my ex until she was eight, courtesy of the (((jewdicial system,))) not because I'd do something to my child, but my ex just wanted to put the screws into me. Fast forward to today, my past is past. My current wife and I are going on 25 years of marriage. And, that's pretty damn good by current divorce data.

My schoolmates and I weren't perfect, oh no, not by a long shot. However, we were disciplined in our academic lives, our married lives, and our sex lives when we were married. Some had children while they were in med school, some of us waited for years, as I did in my case. I even admit that I lived with all three girls I married prior to our marriages, even at age mid-40s (both of us). I don't advocate it, but I did it. And that is a flaw with me, and I admit it. And, one reason I don't advocate living together prior to marriage is that my first wife and I did for three months. That one ended because of the rigors of medical practice. My second wife and I lived together over a year prior to our marriage and that one ended, due to the house in medical practice, after 13 years. My current wife and I lived together for seven months before we married. And, almost 25 years later, we'll only be permanently separated when one of us passes on.

Sorry about the length of the post. I really couldn't break the narrative without some continuity being lost, at least that is my feeling.

I just state that discipline is something especially needed by White Nationalists, Men and Women. I cannot state forcefully enough that the commitment to your spouse or betrothed is something that should be part of your nature if you are White, barring a pitiful experience such as spousal abuse which can occur. Then, if it does occur, the guilty party IS NOT TO BE NUMBERED WITH WHITE NATIONALS!!!!!!!!!

Here I stand. Here I stand from now until death. A committed married man and White National until death.
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Old February 21st, 2019 #16
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I loved my wife of 18 years and literally held her in my arms when she passed on, till death did us part. It took me a couple few years after she died before I felt 'right' about seeing other women, and when I did start dating again I treated them the same as I did my beautiful wife. Still do.

We were very loyal to each other.



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Old February 22nd, 2019 #17
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I was basically married since I was 17 years old, and we did great for 14 years! However taking care of an aged family memory definitely drove a wedge between us. We learned and studied, explored the states together, found activities to do that we both enjoyed (chemistry, soap, perfumery, botany etc.) We knew when to give each other space. We understood that one can have friends of the opposite sex without wanting to bone them. There is a certain amount of trust that must be earned and kept. The fact I was always fighting off dudes or finding ways to hook them up with her friends kept me on my toes and aware of what a beautiful woman she is, akin to a vestal virgin. The power of the gods had to be summoned to keep these daemons away.

I don't see myself getting with anyone else for quite a while. Never cheated on each other the whole time. Prior to her, I was only with one other girl. When we split I made sure that she was payed back for the years she had took care of me, and vice versa. All of the research in the medical field I have done I always had her in mind. Will probably continue to do so. My future studies in physics may be dedicated to the future of mankind.

She is definitely a unicorn ( the one I was with for 14 years.) Very rare, old fashioned and true to her man. I'm definitely kicking myself for not being 110% better than I was, however, many of my friends considered me the "most pussy whipped %^&^% ever." I thought I was just being a gentleman, how my Grandfather raised me. When you guys find a smart, beautiful, and racist white woman, hold on to them and cherish them. Trust me, "eating the same cereal" for years is better than none, or finding out that you had the most tasety, nutritious and healthy bowl the whole time!


Ahahah what an analogy man.

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Old February 23rd, 2019 #18
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I was basically married since I was 17 years old, and we did great for 14 years! However taking care of an aged family memory definitely drove a wedge between us. We learned and studied, explored the states together, found activities to do that we both enjoyed (chemistry, soap, perfumery, botany etc.) We knew when to give each other space. We understood that one can have friends of the opposite sex without wanting to bone them. There is a certain amount of trust that must be earned and kept. The fact I was always fighting off dudes or finding ways to hook them up with her friends kept me on my toes and aware of what a beautiful woman she is, akin to a vestal virgin. The power of the gods had to be summoned to keep these daemons away.

I don't see myself getting with anyone else for quite a while. Never cheated on each other the whole time. Prior to her, I was only with one other girl. When we split I made sure that she was payed back for the years she had took care of me, and vice versa. All of the research in the medical field I have done I always had her in mind. Will probably continue to do so. My future studies in physics may be dedicated to the future of mankind.

She is definitely a unicorn
( the one I was with for 14 years.) Very rare, old fashioned and true to her man. I'm definitely kicking myself for not being 110% better than I was, however, many of my friends considered me the "most pussy whipped %^&^% ever." I thought I was just being a gentleman, how my Grandfather raised me. When you guys find a smart, beautiful, and racist white woman, hold on to them and cherish them. Trust me, "eating the same cereal" for years is better than none, or finding out that you had the most tasety, nutritious and healthy bowl the whole time!


Ahahah what an analogy man.
What happened, did you go jail or something, otherwise if she was so great why did you guys split?

Maybe your friends are correct about your condition, thankfully there´s a cure...

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What happened, did you go jail or something, otherwise if she was so great why did you guys split?

Maybe your friends are correct about your condition, thankfully there´s a cure...

Uncle Popp will set U straight

Terrence Popp
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This site is also a good read

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LOL. I will have insane hours with school and studying, Erik White probably knows how such different schedules can split apart people. Maybe however, that is how my Grandparents stayed married for so long. He would be gone for 5 days out of every week for decades (USAAF, USAF, then liaison officer for USN, then NASA and JPL) and they only saw each other on the weekends. Perhaps that is why they stayed together so long (50 years of marriage.) When I am established and have some years of practice in pathology perhaps there will be a future, however, at this time we need to develop apart from each other.

Maybe we were too young when we settled? I am not sure. Either way, be assured I am kicking myself daily for not being my higher self at all times. Thank you for the links they have cheered me up.
 
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I hate my wife I wish she wanted to divorce me.
 
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